Your Soul Is Speaking Through Life's Obstacles

Have you ever experienced a week where everything seemed to crumble simultaneously? Your dates ghost you, clients miss payments, and friends cancel last-minute—all unrelated events, or so it appears. 

What if these apparently random frustrations are actually precise messages from your higher self, all reflecting the exact same soul-level imbalance?

This episode unveils the hidden language of reflections—how our environment, relationships, and challenges serve as mirrors revealing where we're energetically misaligned. When properly decoded, these reflections become our most powerful tools for transformation. Rather than cursing spilled coffee or a broken grocery bag, you'll learn to ask: "What is my soul trying to communicate through this experience?"

Reflections operate on a spectrum of intensity. They begin as gentle whispers—perhaps spilling water—before escalating to louder signals like repeated relationship patterns or financial struggles. By catching these messages early, you prevent them from manifesting as burnout or illness. The soul always speaks loudest in the areas we value most, using our priorities as its communication channel.

We also explore relationship compatibility through a revolutionary framework of four matching areas. Most people settle for two-out-of-four matches, explaining why relationships often feel unfulfilling despite genuine effort. Beyond traditional compatibility, we discuss soul contracts, soulmates, and the rare but transformative soul compliment relationship—what some incorrectly label "twin flames."

Parents will find particular value in understanding how children under seven often physically manifest their parents' energetic imbalances. By addressing the root causes within ourselves, we simultaneously heal our children's struggles. Ready to shift from reacting to reflections to consciously creating your reality? Listen now and discover how what feels like falling apart might actually be perfect alignment taking shape.

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Chapters

• 0:00 Introducing Unveiled and Life Alignments
• 2:30 Reflections: When Everything Falls Apart
• 9:32 Levels of Reflections and Decoding Signs
• 12:46 Shifting Patterns Through Soul Work
• 17:12 Relationship Compatibility Levels Explained
• 19:35 Helping Children Through Reflections
• 21:20 Soul Life Lessons and Limiting Beliefs

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:05

Welcome to Unveiled the podcast. I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself, and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. Heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions, so let's get into it.

Speaker 2: 0:59

Hello, welcome back to Unveiled. So today we are going to talk about how it feels and what actually is going on when everything is falling apart. However, it's actually coming into perfect alignment. So I talked about this a little bit on Instagram this week, but if you've ever had a week where it has felt like one thing after another and it seems like they're all unrelated which I'll give you an example I'll just tell you they they're actually all related. So if it ever feels like the same annoying things keep happening in your life, such as maybe you're going on dates and you feel like they're going well, but then the guy or girl ghosts you If your clients bail on their payment plans or fail their payment plans, I had one person join one of my signature programs.

Speaker 2: 1:57

She used a code that she really shouldn't have even used, but I didn't say anything. I was just going to let her use it and then she just bounced and didn't pay the rest for the program, which obviously I removed her from. But this is a reflection, so this can also look like a flaky friend canceling on you at the last minute or a family member doing that to you. They are not all random things happening. It's not just bad luck. These are reflections, which is a soul level imbalance that your higher self is trying to show you so that you can finally shift it, not just fix it. So today we're going to talk about why obstacles are actually invitations and how to stop attracting the same pattern from people in, like different bodies in different ways. Right?

Speaker 2: 2:52

So I will tell you about one of my clients. She came to me feeling just so confused, drained, and what had been happening is she was getting ghosted on dates. Like I mentioned, one of her clients had stopped paying, her wasn't returning her emails and her sister, who she loves dearly, kept canceling on their brunch plans at the very last second when my client had to get a babysitter and all of this Right. So on the surface it looked like she had a dating problem, a client, a payment issue and a flaky family member, but with but, when I was able to look in, after just one intuitive read, I actually could see the truth. These separate problems were actually the same reflection, and the thing with reflections which I'm going to get into very deep in my membership unveiled next month, this month, march 2025, is relationships, mastering relationships. April will be about reflections. So if this interests you today, definitely hop in the membership because you also get one-on-one access to me. I will do monthly intuitive reads for you to help you start shifting these.

Speaker 2: 3:58

So, going back to my client, these problems that looked separate from someone who doesn't understand reflections. They were all showing her the exact same thing that she wasn't valuing herself and the people in her life were just mirroring that imbalance back to her. And so, as I've mentioned in past episodes, we have eight areas of life and if we're not balanced in the eight areas, we will be shown this from our higher self. They start out as like little whispers, like spilling water. Right, when I spill water, I pay attention. I'm like okay, where am I leaking energy? Which area of life? Usually it's social media, or just giving too much of myself to someone. Social media or just giving too much of myself to someone? Right, like giving too much of myself to someone in need when I really should be making sure I'm good first before helping others. That is just. That is key. We're not taught that. There's a reason for that, but you always need to make sure you are at 100% before you start helping other people.

Speaker 2: 5:03

This morning I spilled my coffee all over the floor mat in my car. Thank God, my car is actually getting cleaned right now. I had already had this appointment to get it like detailed and I'm so glad it happened before it got detailed, because imagine if it had happened after. So I am grateful for that. I took a second and I asked okay, where am I wasting precious energy? Because my coffee is very precious to me. I get very high end, nice coffee.

Speaker 2: 5:35

It takes me a while to get my coffee right in the morning and when I spill it it's a huge reflection. Another example yesterday is at the grocery store and they gave me this really thin bag but she didn't put all of my groceries in it. So I was carrying two bulky items and this very thin bag. It all starts to fall. The bag starts to break and luckily I had a cart nearby, so I just kind of stopped and like let it all fall into the cart and I was just like laughing.

Speaker 2: 6:07

So a lot of people, oh, and it knocked over my coffee. So a lot of people would be like God damn it, like so angry, blaming it on her, blaming it on everything, right. I actually laughed because I was like Okay, this is a very good reflection for me right now that I that I need to get into my car, sit and decode before I do anything else. So that is how psycho I am about reflections, because I would rather spill my coffee than have to deal with an angry, you know person or someone flaking on me or something. Right Like those are louder. So there's usually like there's like level one reflections which would be, for me, spilling water, and then a level 10 reflection could be like severe sickness or disease. So I want to catch them when they're like whispers, and you can do that by really being aware of your environment and then either having someone like me be able to decode them for you or you can come learn how to decode them, or some of them, at least in my membership right.

Speaker 2: 7:15

So these were showing up because she wasn't valuing herself and she hadn't been valuing herself for quite some time for it to be this loud. So and we look at this, and of the eight areas of life, we typically always have three areas that are our most important right. So for her it was social, which is dating her family, which is her sister, and then financial right. So she's going to experience reflections in those areas because they're the most important to her. But the imbalance typically isn't there. The imbalance is in a different area of life. So for her, she wasn't valuing her physical, the physical area of life, her body. She wasn't taking the time to sit, eat nutritious meals, go on a walk. She was like slamming down protein bars, protein shakes, like just thinking, oh, I'll get to that later, right? She wasn't valuing her physical health and so she didn't pay attention to the quieter reflections. She didn't pay attention until they were really starting to impact her life in a negative way. So the soul will always speak the loudest where we care the most.

Speaker 2: 8:31

So just take a second and reflect. What is a pattern that you're seeing in your life? Do you have a friend who makes, makes you feel like you're too much right? Or do you have a client who keeps pushing your boundaries? Or do you have a romantic partner who you know, just doesn't give you as much time as you want? It is never about them. They are just the messengers. They are just reflecting back to us because remember, we're in our own Truman show they are just reflecting back to us that we're out of balance. So they're actually doing us a huge favor, even though it doesn't feel like it.

Speaker 2: 9:12

And so we can find and decode these messages, these imbalances, before they become level eight, nine, 10. Because, like I said, level one for me, spilling water, that's my higher self saying, hey, you're leaking energy. Put boundaries around social media, because I do kind of get sucked into social media sometimes and if I ignore that then I'll spill coffee all over my car. If I ignore that, then maybe it shows up as my child being sick. And then level 10 is like full out burnout or illness, right? So we don't want to get to those level 10 reflections. There's really no need.

Speaker 2: 9:56

And so when you know how to read these signs, it actually for me it's kind of funny because I'm like, okay, I get it and I'll like laugh. If someone was watching me yesterday at the grocery store, they would have been like why? Most people wouldn't have found that funny. But I was like this is such a huge reflection for me and I listen, right, and you actually get soul points for just trying to decode it. Even if it's not right, you will get some soul points for just like, okay, what could this mean, right? So because I have scientifically precise intuition, I can look in and see immediately what's going on. So if you don't have that scientifically precise intuition which I will be teaching in my membership, a beginner level intuition then you can just kind of try to piece it together Like but you would need to know which area of life is out of balance, how that ties back to it, right? So this is like the work. This is real frequency shifting, blueprint rewriting, intuitive healing work.

Speaker 2: 10:57

And so, like I said in my membership in March which, no matter when you join, you get access to all the other masterclasses I do a masterclass every month. I've really been diving into relationships and then next month we're going to go into reflection. So, again, if you want help there, join and you can use your one on one with me to just tell me some of the patterns you're seeing in your life and I will decode that for you. And so my membership is 12 months because it's more of a mentorship than a than just like a membership. I do monthly masterclass you. And so my membership is 12 months because it's more of a mentorship than a than just like a membership. I do monthly masterclasses and you get one-on-ones with me.

Speaker 2: 11:33

But what I found is the people who had purchased annually they were the ones seeing the huge shifts, and so I was like you know what? I'm just going to make it so that, so that it's an old, it's only an annual membership and right now the price is still pretty low. I will be going up just to give you a heads up, okay? So if you've been asking like why do I keep attracting the same kind of person, or why does this keep happening to me, or why do I feel like I'm the problem, you are not the problem. It's the tools that you were given, that I was given right, and that's what I'm doing. I'm undoing what we were given and I am upgrading the tools so that you can move through life with more ease. That does not mean you'll ever stop having reflections. You'll still have reflections but, like I said, you'll catch them when they're quieter and not so upsetting. Right, and sometimes there are soul contract things.

Speaker 2: 12:28

Which is what I'm talking about this month in the membership is relationships. We were taught to find the person as early as possible, get married and just stay with them, no matter what. Right, like that's what was ingrained in my head, but actually we've been taught so backwards about relationships. So just briefly, I will share what I'm talking about in the membership but we have. There are different levels of relationship compatibility. So there are four areas of compatibility. Most people end up settling for a two out of four partner, which means they match in two out of those four areas. That's why relationships don't feel fulfilling for most people. That's why there's so many divorces. Right, because they get together, marry a two out of four and then they're just trying to make it work. But they don't match in all four areas. Right, they only are a 50% match. But because of society and all of its programming, they feel bad when they get a divorce. But we also have soul contracts with people. So sometimes we'll be with someone, let's say, for three years, but their soul contract had ended after year one. If people were aware of this, they would see relationships as they actually are, which are learning tools.

Speaker 2: 13:50

The more that you can practice with two out of fours, three out of fours and continue doing self-improvement, the more that you'll be ready for a four out of four, which is a soulmate, perfect match, right. But if you haven't done the inner work, you will not be ready for your four out of four and you likely won't even meet them. And so everybody has like one to three, sometimes even more, soulmates, four out of four soulmates. But you have to be in an energetic match and be ready to meet them in order to make it work, otherwise you'll just get that chance in the next lifetime. So might as well start doing all of the work in this lifetime right and be able to experience that beautiful four out of four relationship which my mentor told me. I have a four out of four coming, and so I'm definitely I've been single for two years working on myself. I will definitely be ready for that four out of four when he comes along.

Speaker 2: 14:43

There is something above that which is called a soul compliment, and I might've even talked about it a little bit on the podcast, but I shared a lot more in the membership this month. A soul compliment is when it's kind of like what people call twin flames, but that's actually not accurate. A soul compliment is you in the opposite energy, so where you are feminine, they are masculine. It's literally just you in the other energetic form. So you could be uh, maybe you run your business in a very masculine way. They might run their business in a feminine way. So but again, if you haven't done the inner work you will will not meet your soul compliment Soul compliments can feel like your life is under destruction.

Speaker 2: 15:32

My mentor told me because when he told me that I was going to meet my four out of four, I was like, oh so I'm not going to meet my soul compliment in this life. And he said you could, but it might be an extra like three years to get ready for that. And like your higher self has a lot of things to accomplish in this lifetime and you know, it just kind of like delay things and I was like, oh no, I am good with a four out of four. That sounds great. So I just really wanted to cover this today Because this is so important, not just for us.

Speaker 2: 16:04

But if you're a parent, being able to help your children through reflections, like I help my 10 year old knows now she'll come to me and she'll say, okay, this happened at school today. Can we look at what's happening? And so I'm teaching her at age 10, how to decode reflections and then how to shift them. That's the most important part. Like is, yes, it's great to have the information, like here's what's happening, but I also share how to shift.

Speaker 2: 16:29

Like just last week I helped a mother. Her child was having really severe eczema age six and so when our children are seven or younger, they are reflection of us. So anything going on with our child will either be our reflection, unless there's like a sole contract for them to get a certain disease or something which there are, those sole contracts. Otherwise it is a reflection of one of the parents. And what was so interesting is this this was the first time I had done a read where the dad was the reflective parent, so I was able to look in and see exactly what's happening with the dad in order to shift the child, and in less than 24 hours the eczema wounds which had been open, raw bleeding, were already scabbing over. And I told her exactly what to do, physically and energetically, because there is always an energetic action and a physical action, because we are energetic beings and a physical body. So I gave her those actions and that's how we start shifting, and so this can also come out in children's behavior.

Speaker 2: 17:38

So, like my son is a reflection of me, so when I'm going through something emotional, if I don't deal with it, he will make sure that I deal with it because he might start acting out. Or he'll say, when I was being really hard on myself, he would say like everybody hates me, you hate me, you hate me. And I was like what, where is this coming from? Because I literally probably tell him I love him too much. Like all day long I'm saying like I love you so much. So I was like, oh, that's, he's reflecting that back to me that I'm being hard on myself. So there's all these little clues in our environment, our higher self, our guides, angels. They will speak to us in our environment as well. But you just have to know how to read the clues right. And you know I think this is why I loved being in the accounting world CFO for so long is because I love solving puzzles.

Speaker 2: 18:34

So solving reflections is just one of my natural gifts and I love doing it for people and I love doing it for myself. So I wanted to share that because there's a lot happening right now and we're at a time where we really need to shift the scale from dark to light. We can do this by starting to shift ourselves, which means understanding how reflections work. Also understanding your reoccurring soul life lesson. The majority of our reflections and issues in life actually stem from that reoccurring life lesson. For example, mine were not feeling special and then putting others before myself, so that continued to show up in relationships where I would put my partner before myself. I would like devote time and money and energy towards my partner at the expense of myself, right, so I will never do that again, lesson learned. And then the special component was I mean, this goes there's so much I could say on this. I'm just trying to be brief here the I am special.

Speaker 2: 19:45

Typically, we have this dream when we're a child, like for me, it was to be a supermodel, right. And then maybe someone tells us like, oh, that's not possible. So then you're like, okay, well, then I'll just settle for being a catalog model. Right, I really wanted to be a runway model, but maybe I'll just settle for being a catalog model. So the second, that you limit yourself, limit your potentials, all of that your dreams get reduced. That is the emotional root cause the soul imbalance of all issues.

Speaker 2: 20:22

All healing comes down to just one thing that the soul is out of balance and the perception of self has been limited. So this is what I do, like I look in. Just this morning someone's husband is having issues and I looked in and found the limitation of self that has caused a lot of this, and then the reflections he's actually experiencing now. I found the limiting beliefs contributing to the reflections, and the limiting beliefs are just like little sub limiting beliefs to the main one. If that makes sense, I feel like I need to draw a diagram. So just take some time and just notice, like the next time you spill water, where are you leaking energy? If you spill your coffee, that means it's a little louder Definitely something to pay more attention to than just spilling water. So that's it for today. Bye.

Speaker 1: 21:19

Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways, so please connect with me on Instagram that, angela, marie, christian and feel free to tag me when you share it with your friends. Every single review matters and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this world. If you leave a review, let me know and I'll send you a little thank you gift. Any resources mentioned in the show will be linked in the show notes. Sending you all love. Bye.