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Family Is The Fastest Path To Better Communication, Stronger Boundaries, and High Conscious Leadership

Angela Christian Season 4 Episode 31

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Ever feel like the same family patterns follow you from one holiday to the next? We dig into why that happens and how to transform it—turning gatherings into a living classroom for communication, boundaries, and high-conscious leadership. Through raw stories and real-time reflections, I share how a personal “running away” pattern showed up everywhere—from dating avoidance to my kid’s behavior—and the steps I'm using to stop fleeing and start leading.

We break down the idea that family is your fastest leadership school. You’ll hear how to shift out of fight-or-flight during tough conversations, anticipate friction before it erupts, and respond with language that’s clear and kind. I explain the “inside-out voice,” where criticism from a parent often mirrors your own self-talk, and how neutralizing inner judgments changes the dynamic in the room. You’ll also get simple energetic practice ideas to raise the vibe of a holiday dinner, create calm without control, and keep dark emotional contagion from derailing the day.

We also touch on the membership focus for December and January—high-conscious leadership—plus upcoming resources including a deeper contagion clearing and a group healing to align your unique leadership skill set. Press play, try one tool at your next gathering, and then come tell me what shifted. 

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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast. I'm your host, Angela Kristen, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics, and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I work and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers feel, transform, and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions. So let's get into it. Hello and welcome back to Unveiled. I am so excited to be here with you guys today. This will be my last podcast episode, probably for the year. I definitely won't be doing one next week on the 23rd. I might do one on the 30th. We'll see. But with having all the kids home for the holiday and all of that, I don't really see it happening. So unless I can sneak away. But I will have my Sunday source still. I did skip this last Sunday, the 14th, because it was my daughter's birthday. I had a huge birthday party for her. And the day before that, I had attended a birthday party for my previous stepdaughter. I am friends with her mother, and her daughter is half siblings with my son. So modern family for you there. But we had that party, and then I had to get ready for my daughter's party. It was just a lot. So usually I will squeeze it in even if I'm sick. As you know, I don't think I've missed a single Sunday since I started. No, I think that was the first one, maybe. So I was going to try to force myself and I was like, you know, I'm not going to do that to myself or to my listeners because I like to be able to sit and channel and not feel rushed. So just wanted to share it a little bit there. But what I did pull, I thought I did sit and like actually channel what Source wanted me to talk about. So what I thought I would do, I was going to save it for next Sunday, but I got the I got the hit this morning to just go ahead and talk about it today on the podcast because it does tie in actually really beautifully with the holidays and all of that. What Source wanted me to talk about on Sunday is the value of family, not just like from a generic standpoint, but like how much our family actually helps us on our soul path, helps shapes us, all of that, which is perfect right before you know the holidays and all of that. So I've been dealing with an interesting reflection that kind of ties into all of this. And I'm just gonna kind of go with it, see where we get. But the reflection I've been dealing with is around running away from things. And what I've realized is my family has been a huge piece in helping me stop running. And I'll give you a good example. So my son, who is reflecting me still, he's six years old. He will reflect me probably until he's about seven or so. And he's been having issues at school where he's running from the teacher. Now, I can't really tell the teacher, oh, he's just reflecting me because I don't know, maybe she'd be open to it. But most teachers would, you know, it would require a little bit of conversation around that. And actually, I had a friend look in and she's the one who picked, who actually connected it for me. I was telling her about the issue with my son running away at school, and then she told me, she's like, Oh, it's because you're running away from dating, social area of life, which was gold. And then I sat with it and I was like, Oh, okay, it's even deeper, actually. It goes back, like, yes, it that is what's happening, and I'll explain. But then my dog ran off on Sunday, right before the birthday party. My daughter was in tears, we were screaming for him, and at that point I was like, okay, this running away stuff needs to stop. So I sat down and I was like, How am I running from my dating life right now? Well, I don't date, basically, so not doing too great of a job there. So I did go on, as some of you know, the dating apps for a little bit. And I just, I don't know, it's just not really for me, I guess. I used to go on there, but I tried and it just was not feeling great. I actually need to sit with my higher self and just ask, like, is that what you want me to do? Like, I'm trying to put myself out there, but then again, I really don't do much socially. I did host my first uh women's networking group at a local restaurant, and that was really fun. And I was like, oh, okay, maybe this is going to lead me to meeting someone. There was a guy at the gym who I thought was attractive, and I think this is actually what set it all off because after Thanksgiving, I came back to the gym, hadn't seen him in like a couple of weeks, and he kind of made a beeline over to me and said good morning, but I was just kind of flustered. I also realized I had walked into the gym with my Ug boots on and I didn't want to go take them off. So at that same time, he said good morning, and I just was kind of caught off guard and said, Oh, good morning, and then just kind of got awkward and I ran off. So I think that's honestly what started a lot of these running away reflections. But then as I sat and started looking deeper, I realized I've always kind of run away from things in different aspects, but definitely romantic relationships. I'm very much someone who in the past, if I feel like the relationship isn't going well or they're annoying me or whatever, I will just be like, eh, I don't really want to do this anymore and run away, right? I've also done that with family members, which brings me to the topic of today, which is if I get into an argument with a family member, we don't see something the same way. My immediate reaction, inner reaction, inner response is like to just drop the relationship. And I've and I've realized over the last, I don't know, three or four days that I've been dealing with this, maybe a week, that for some reason that is my fight or flight response, right? Is to run from confrontation, to run from annoyance, to run from anything like that. But in doing so, it actually prevented me from upgrading my communication and leadership skills, right? So if you've been listening for a little while, I've been dialing in my communication skills so much and recently did have a disagreement with a family member. I handled it so different than I would have in the past. I wasn't, even though I could feel that little piece of me inside going, oh, well, you don't need them anyway. I was like, I am not going to do that again. So I tapped into my communication skills, my leadership skills, took on the responsibility of knowing I'm the higher conscious person in this dynamic. So I need to be the one leading the higher conscious actions, right? So I am happy to take on that responsibility if it means raising the frequency for family members or friends or whoever or partner. So what I've been doing to flip this reflection, just one of the tools, I'm doing several things, but one of the things is I'm just kind of noticing throughout the day my inclination to run, right? Like yesterday someone followed my my new networking group Instagram. And it's someone who, and it wasn't an actual person, it was more a business, but it was one that like could be a conflict of interest for someone in my family. And I know I'm being vague, but just trying to just trying to not say any names. So my immediate response was like, ooh, I'm gonna block them. And then I immediately caught myself and I was like, ooh, wait, there's there's the running away, right? So what could I do instead? I can just let them follow us, not that big of a deal. If they try to cause any kind of drama, all of that, that would be a reflection, first of all. But what would the highest conscious version of me do? I would just let them follow me if they want to follow me, right? I'm not gonna block them. So just kind of noticing throughout the day, like earlier I was at, I was out and about and saw someone and someone I like, but I just didn't feel like having a conversation. So I pretended I didn't see them and just kept walking. I do things like that a lot. Sometimes it is to like kind of just if I'm in my own world, I just don't feel like having a conversation, but just noticing the little ways that I do tend to run away from things, right? And I'm certainly have been running away from dating, even though I am, I do feel ready, but there's been this back and forth in my mind, which I do think is causing some of the issues with my son. Is some days he's amazing at school, other days he's running from the teacher, hiding all of these things. And I that very much reflects my feelings around dating. Some days I'm like all for it. Okay, I'm here, excited to go to the gym, say hi to the guy. I mean, who knows, you know, or open, you know, to someone coming in. And then other days I'm like, I just don't have time or like space for someone right now. So you can kind of see how that would reflect in him. Now there's other tools I'm obviously doing, but it is interesting to just kind of observe. And I know my higher self is setting this up for me because I'm being called to step into this leadership role, this high conscious leadership role, which if you didn't know in my membership this month in December and January, we're covering high conscious leadership. I'm actually so excited about it. And so I channeled what makes up a high conscious leader, right? And that was a really fun thing to teach. And so something exciting I'm going to do in the membership, which I haven't even told the members yet, is I'm going to do a healing to align everyone in the membership with the high conscious skill sets that they're meant to have in this life. So that is really exciting. If you're a member, look out for that. If you're not a member, you can jump in, you can listen. There's two audios right now on high conscious leadership. You can listen to those. There are more coming, and then there will be the healing to align you with your the skill set that you need for your high conscious leadership role. Not everybody's is the same, right? There are some people who are going to need to lead hundreds of thousands of people or millions, where there's other people who might, it might be a smaller amount. It might be leading a family, right? So there's all different levels. And being a high conscious leader includes influencing people, right? It's not about popularity or getting as many followers as possible, all of that. It's about influence that aligns with the source perspective and the greater good of the world. So, how does this fit in with family? Well, if you're a high conscious soul, which if you're here, you likely are, then even just being in your company, you can influence and raise the frequency of those around you. So if you're at a holiday dinner, a holiday event, there are energy techniques you can do to literally raise the vibration of the room. There are energy techniques you can do to kind of push out the dark forces that might be attached to your family members so that you aren't influenced, right? There's a lot that we can do because if you don't know how to do these things, then there is the risk of getting into arguments, of you know, having these political discussions that rarely turn out well. So being a high conscious leader is very much about being prepared, knowing what could happen, and then having a plan on how you'll deal with that. There are also fun little techniques you can do to make people treat you the way you want to be treated, right? There are so many different things that we can actually control. So the days of thinking that you can't control those around you are over. You just need to learn how, right? And in a high conscious way, this isn't like dark magic or manipulating people or anything like that. It's about actually raising the frequency of those around us. So without my family, without all of the challenges I've had, I wouldn't be able to compare poor communication skills with high conscious communication skills, right? I wouldn't be able to compare someone who runs from confrontation to someone who can control the room and raise the frequency, right? So family is actually such an amazing way to build key skill sets that will help in your soul poll, in your career, and relationships, all of that. And my mentor, Alessandro, told me, he said, until you figure out how to communicate with your family and not just communicate, but actually be able to anticipate any kind of friction and then shift it before it happens or know what you're walking into. He's like, your soulmate won't come in. So he knew how to dangle the carrot there for me. So I was like, okay, I am diving in to increase my communication skill set, right? And in doing so, I have seen such a big difference in my family dynamic and just the way people communicate. And not just that, but we often have someone in our family who is our inside out voice. If you're married, it might be your partner for me, it's my mom. So if she starts criticizing me, I know it's actually not her. And I can test how rooted she is to what she's saying. It's usually very low because it's my inside out voice, right? And and so now when she does say something, right, or criticizes something, I don't even have an emotional response to it anymore. Where I used to fly off the handle and it would piss me off so much. And now it's just kind of like it doesn't faze me. So it's just really cool to see when you have these energetic tools and this high conscious information, and you're working on your skill sets and doing all of this, it benefits all areas of life because increasing my communication and my leadership, all of that, you can see how that would help my soul pool with my clients, with my kids, with my family, with a partner, friends, right? So before, I'll give you a little tip. Before you walk into your family dinner or gathering, just take a few seconds to figure out any kind of critical thoughts you're having about yourself, neutralize those. If you don't know how, I have a ton of ways in my membership, and then just kind of watch how things can be different. Now, sometimes it takes a little time because oftentimes these critical thoughts are in our subconscious. So if it is a subconscious thought, it might take a little bit more time, like with me. It did take some time before I stopped seeing the criticism at the level it was before. And now when I do hear any bit of criticism, I'm like, oh, inside out voice, yep, I know exactly what it's about. I shift it and it's gone. I don't even react to the criticism because I know it's just a holograph. It's just showing me what's actually happening in my own mind. So I just wanted to share some of what Source showed me on Sunday that I wasn't able to share. If you don't get my Sunday source, I'll link it in the show notes. It's a free weekly channeling. I do an audio version and then I do a written version as well. So when you sign up, you will get both. And Source just wanted to share that like our families don't need to be a source of so much anger and frustration. It's actually the best way for us to grow. Also, something you can do is listen to the contagion clearing I did a few episodes back before you go meet with your family. That will help as well. In my membership, I actually have a longer and more in-depth contagion clearing. So you can listen to that one if you're in my membership. I would love to know anything that you take away from this today. And just notice like, who in your family do you usually have issues with? Who do you, you know, get criticized by just starting to gather information just like a scientist. That's what I like doing. Anytime something feels a little emotional, I'm like, okay, putting on the scientist hat, and I'm going to just gather information. So I hope that helps you during your holidays. And before I forget, I do have a few more spots left for my Dark Force and Kids program. Our first live call is January 16th, I believe. I also decided to open up one extra mentorship spot for January. So if you've been interested in the mentorship joining that, definitely grab your spot. I'll put the link below. The way that my members have been using it is so beautiful. A lot of them are studying intuition, dark forces, all of that, reflections. And they get telegram access to me Monday through Wednesday. So if they're working on a specific intuition technique or they're dealing with a reflection, they'll use the telegram check-ins to get my help with that, whether it's calibrations or helping them go deeper or figuring out a reflection, checking for dark forces. There's so many different ways. And it has been such an amazing learning experience for me. And I have just treasured so much and excited to keep moving forward. But I did want to open up another spot. So that is waiting for you. Sending you guys so much love and happy holidays, all of that. And I'm excited to see how you're doing in the new year. Sending you love. Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways. So please connect with me on Instagram at AngelaMurieChristian and feel free to tag me when you share it with your friends. Every single review matters, and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this world. 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